It's tough when you have to deal with a break up. There are so many questions and emotions going through your mind, you feel lost and alone in this world. The only thing you want is to get your ex back. You want to make things the way they were. But how, how do you do this? Is it even possible?
Let me reassure you - it's absolutely possible, but it will take more than just wishful thinking to achieve it. If you really want it, you have to do it right, otherwise you will make the situation even worse. The latter is not too difficult to do, because break up is a very delicate situation. Not to mention emotional. And here lies the core of the problem - emotions. Breaking up awakens strong and powerful emotions. The problem is that these emotions tend to take control. They control you and not the other way around.
It's hard, because you are in a very emotional state, but you have to take control. Otherwise it's not going to end the way you want.
In this delicate situation you simply can not afford to be desperate, clingy, needy, and so on. It won't help if you will argue, stalk, accuse, drink, beg, and so on.
What you need is also a plan. In other words, you have to know exactly what you are doing. You have to know in what way to approach the situation to make it better and not worse. Because believe me, it's very easy to make things worse.
Always remember one thing: what people want the most is what they can't have. If you do things correctly, you will not only stop a break up, you will reinforce your relationship.
